There’s a huge distinction between love and lust. Never confuse the two or you’ll be hurt, badly. You meet a girl, you approach her, you run game and you get her into bed. Does this mean you too are dating? ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!
After you get really good at this shit, you will have a lot of one night stands, a lot of same night lays and if you’re particularly sexual a lot of fuck buddies. You might end up “falling for these girls” and then you’re going to fuck it up. Don’t blur the lines between lust and love.
This is something that girls (well, bitches) do a lot. You sleep with them, chill with them and they get confused, don’t let this happen. EVER. There’s nothing more damaging to an up and coming PUA than a woman whose out for revenge against you. Girls are particularly vengeful when they feel like they’ve been wronged; they spread ugly rumours like wildfire. (His got a small dick, he sucks in bed, he’s a 30 second man, bad kisser etc).
So how do you avoid this? How do you make you intentions clear to the chick? Easy, if you’re in it just for the sex then make it clear, not crystal clear of course (don’t explicitly say it unless she’s going around telling everyone y’all are dating) just clear enough so she gets it. If, for example, she acting like a girlfriend (calling every night, asking you for “permission” before she does stuff etc.) and you haven’t explicitly said that y’all are dating (and don’t want to date her), then start hinting that you have a girlfriend even if you don’t have one. Or in a half serious voice ask her to hook you up with one of her friends or cousins she’ll more than likely say okay, after that change the subject and never bring it up again.
How do you avoid acting like a bitch? Simple don’t ever ask her about where she was, where she’s going, whether she has boyfriend (girls will typically tell you if they have a boyfriend close enough to bust you), how she feels about you and don’t EVER take her out to eat (for what, it’s about sex, keep it in the bedroom). It’s none of your business if she’s dating or fucking someone else (just make sure you buy Durex condoms-ultra thin).
Also, don’t go all stalker on her-don’t go through her Facebook profile or her messages (never do this, it’s none of you business) and DO NOT answer her phone or even look whose calling (for what? She’s not you fucking girlfriend, don’t treat her like one) and it’s probably better if you don’t introduce her to your friends or spend too much time with her-don’t see one particular girl more than 3times a week (unless the sex is that good). Under no circumstances do you introduce her to you parents, no matter what. If you parents happen to see her leaving your place, or coming to your place and you absolutely have to introduce her, then introduce her as Nicole (if that’s her name of course) and then walk away with Nicole before your parents start asking questions you don’t want to answer like, “how long have you guys been dating”.)
If she’s in the same boat as you (she’s in it for the sex) and she has a boyfriend don’t talk ill about him, ever even if she does. If she starts saying negative things about him tell her it’s none of you business if they’re fighting or whatever (but keep mentioning him from time to time to keep him in her thoughts, so to speak, and to keep you in the position you’re at. If she tries to leave the dude for you, and you’re happy with the arrangement you currently have, tell her not to.
Lastly, do not ever, ever, ever say I love you no matter what. If she needs you to say it before you fuck her and you really want to fuck her, when she says I love you kiss her passionately and then fuck her. Oh, one last thing for one night stands-don’t take her phone number and don’t give her yours (and don’t ask for her name or tell her yours unless she asks, it’s just better that way). I’m Out and remember whatever she does when you’re not around is none of your business, when it starts to bother you then walk away from her, hey you still have more where she came from.
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